

Dirty Laundry: Did Your Insurance Company Get the Memo… That You Put Your House in a Trust?(West Hills & San Fernando Valley Homeowners Guide)
You transferred your home into a revocable living trust—but did your insurance company actually get the memo? This post explains why homeowners in West Hills and surrounding Los Angeles areas often have coverage gaps after estate planning, and what simple steps prevent claim delays or confusion later.
4 hours ago4 min read


Can Doctors Talk to Me About My Elderly Parent Without a HIPAA Authorization?
Most caregivers don’t realize they’ve become caregivers until they’re standing in a Costco aisle holding a box of adult diapers. A story about aging parents, HIPAA authorizations, and the quiet way caregiving changes a family.
May 173 min read


Room 407. Dementia. A vigil. A bowl of kimchi.
For months, four siblings took turns turning two vinyl hospital chairs into a bed. A 2025 study found that dementia patients feel happiness — especially when supportive people are around. This Mother's Day, bring kimchi. Or menudo. Or solyanka. Or amba. She can still smell. She can still feel.
May 71 min read


420. A birthdate. A deed. Chemotherapy.
420. A birthdate. A deed. Chemotherapy.
May 21 min read


What is incapacity planning? (The ice cream sandwich metaphor)
Ice cream sandwich. Three flavors. One freezer. No one talks. Then the freezer breaks. And no one knows who's chocolate anymore. A Dirty Laundry definition about the sandwich generation and incapacity planning.
Apr 232 min read


Can you disinherit a child in California?
Disinherit. A word you sometimes think about when your kids stop calling. But disinheriting doesn't fix the silence. It just makes it legal. And permanent.
Apr 222 min read


What is the sandwich generation in estate planning?
The sandwich generation: anxious adults in their 40s-60s caring for aging parents and their own kids. But what happens when there's no partner? No sweetness? Just you. A Dirty Laundry definition for the peanut butter (no jelly) sandwich.
Apr 212 min read





